Warning: tl;dr zone
Many things factor into the dynamics of any group be it online or in the real world. You have age and maturity, which are not always the same thing. The age spread for Trainz is vast, from pre teens to those well into their golden years. It's natural for those of different generations to have different values, ideals and to communicate differently. A lot of younger people , through no fault of their own, can be impatient, impetuous, unwise to "how things work in the world" and socially awkward. On the plus side they can bring energy, enthusiasm, and fresh ideas. Us older types can be stubborn, set in our ways, inflexible, long winded and dismissive. However,we have experience, patience (usually), a sense of history and can lend guidance in certain areas. Those in between can bring coffee and donuts.
Add all that to the multi cultural makeup of the Trainz community, where language and colloquial differences can impact the conversation and you have a fairly complicated environment for communication. You will also have a certain amount of people who are just wired to be asshats, fanbois, contrarians and general troublemakers. That being said, there are certain and guiding principles to any civil discourse and they could be more evident here at times. We all have a common interest here, for some it is just a pleasant pastime, a diversion, for some it is a consuming passion, and for some it is actually an income source. it should be bringing us together, not pulling us apart.
It's OK to have a different opinion, to disagree, to even argue over things we are passionate about. But it can still be done with respect for each other, in a civil manner. Read your post, twice, before hitting send. Ask yourself if that is what you would say to that person if you were speaking face to face? Is it understandable? There is no need for text speak here. Read someone else's post, twice, before you respond. Are they saying what you think they are saying? Probably half of forum fights can be chalked up to reading comprehension and poor writing.
I do agree that a lack of moderation is an issue, truthfully I couldn't name a moderator besides Ryan, but moderating a forum is a time consuming job, especially if it is done on a voluntary basis. Self policing is a better route to go, we wouldn't want this place to be a party line lockdown venue.
End of sermon, we now return you to your regularly scheduled poo flinging event.
Many things factor into the dynamics of any group be it online or in the real world. You have age and maturity, which are not always the same thing. The age spread for Trainz is vast, from pre teens to those well into their golden years. It's natural for those of different generations to have different values, ideals and to communicate differently. A lot of younger people , through no fault of their own, can be impatient, impetuous, unwise to "how things work in the world" and socially awkward. On the plus side they can bring energy, enthusiasm, and fresh ideas. Us older types can be stubborn, set in our ways, inflexible, long winded and dismissive. However,we have experience, patience (usually), a sense of history and can lend guidance in certain areas. Those in between can bring coffee and donuts.
Add all that to the multi cultural makeup of the Trainz community, where language and colloquial differences can impact the conversation and you have a fairly complicated environment for communication. You will also have a certain amount of people who are just wired to be asshats, fanbois, contrarians and general troublemakers. That being said, there are certain and guiding principles to any civil discourse and they could be more evident here at times. We all have a common interest here, for some it is just a pleasant pastime, a diversion, for some it is a consuming passion, and for some it is actually an income source. it should be bringing us together, not pulling us apart.
It's OK to have a different opinion, to disagree, to even argue over things we are passionate about. But it can still be done with respect for each other, in a civil manner. Read your post, twice, before hitting send. Ask yourself if that is what you would say to that person if you were speaking face to face? Is it understandable? There is no need for text speak here. Read someone else's post, twice, before you respond. Are they saying what you think they are saying? Probably half of forum fights can be chalked up to reading comprehension and poor writing.
I do agree that a lack of moderation is an issue, truthfully I couldn't name a moderator besides Ryan, but moderating a forum is a time consuming job, especially if it is done on a voluntary basis. Self policing is a better route to go, we wouldn't want this place to be a party line lockdown venue.
End of sermon, we now return you to your regularly scheduled poo flinging event.
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