Is there something about me or the way I am that some members simply do not like?

Thankyou trainboy99. From what I see, it's a minority of users that seem to have a problem with me - you're not one of them.

Shane
 
I too feel that you are a definite asset here, Shane. You are the "pre-helpdesk" that have set users with problems straight innumerable times. If your concern was with that recent thread about .IM files, I would have stopped trying to convince someone that their view was incorrect after about 2 posts. However, it is to your credit that you state your position and consistently stick with it.

Don't let a few naysayers bother you.

Andrew
 
You do a great job and have helped me several times. Everything changes but some of us stay the same. This is a hobby to enjoy not to dread!!!!!
 
Shane,
My granddaughter is autistic (well she would be officially declared so if the penny pinchers in Worcester county council got their finger out of the pie :) but thats a different story). Anyway I know she see things in black and white - there are no grey areas for her. Its either right or wrong, left or right. The point is she often wonders why people dont always understand where her train of thoughts are coming from. All she knows and feels is a desire to help. Ive been the recipient of your help many times since Ive been involved with Trainz. Everyone can get over enthusiastic occasionally (my granddaugheter drives me mad with my little pony lol ). but without that enthusiasm many of us would be floundering a lot more than we are. So all I can say is keep up the good work - your efforts are worth more than you know.

Antony
 
As you help others ... That is a great thing.

Steamboateng and Geophil have also been very helpful, and I am extremely grateful to them ... as I am starting to make great progress with Transdem
 
Well Shane it looks like you don't need to worry at all, It is clear already the vast majority support your efforts.
 
Thankyou to all who have responded (reason I'm doing it like this is because there's quite a few names and it would take a while to individually respond). I'm glad to see that I've still got quite a few friends here, although I do find it concerning that a minority of members (although no-one that has responded so far in this thread is in that category) seem to find pleasure in provoking others (they know who they are). Coincidentally, a few of said members usually moan when they are found out to be doing wrong anyway (like using dodgy versions of Trainz)

I'm feeling somewhat happier now, but I'm hoping that the people that do stir up trouble think twice before doing it, especially if it's towards me or anyone who has responded in this thread.

Regarding the T2 Support thread, I have left a final reply on that thread to try and encourage those who are unable or unwilling to pledge towards T2 to consider promoting the project.

Shane

P.S. AntonyVW - I had a similar problem with being correctly statemented/diagnosed - it took until I was 9 for that to happen.
 
No problem here either with you Shane .
I do think too that most trainzers know you as a serious person , nothing wrong with that either. ( a few did get a smiley out of you now and then though :D )
Always fast on the draw too when it comes to helping others, and mostly succeeding too....

@cascade - when you collect 13 years backpay from your ( ex ? ) boss please remember to deposit a generous pledge.
 
Hi Shane,

You can't please all of the people all of the time! There will always be people ready to knock those with the talent you obviously have.

I purchased a new computer about 5 months ago which prompted me to return to Trainz after an absence of a couple of years. Without the help and advice I found from you and others by trawling through the forum I would have given up on Trainz months ago. The community would be much the poorer without you. Please try to ignore the knockers and carry on the good work.

Please do not give up. Your talent is invaluable.

Best wishes
Ken
 
Ken and amrail2000 - thank you both for your responses. Perhaps I should just ignore those who want to cause me problems or be mean about my posts (unless of course it's something I've done wrong, then an honest but friendly comment about what I've done wrong will help).

Shane
 
Shane,

Not to worry only if you run into me posting with my thai English:hehe: there is a slight chance of wazz up but not to worry.
Keep up the good work.

Roy
 
Personally, I think you are nothing but an asset to the community, you are enthusiastic, knowledgeable, and you make all your points clearly and consisely. Keep doing what you are doing and don't sweat the small stuff.

If you'll allow a little amateur psychology I'll offer up some ideas. We all know on the internet, there are people who live to be asshats and big bags of douche from the anonymity of the computer in their mother's basement. Also, as you said, you may have trouble perceiving nuances in what people post, things like sarcasm or good natured ribbing. Also, your enthusiasm can be taken as fanboy-ism, some here have a decidedly more negative outlook on Trainz and N3V than you. Some people are just contrarian by nature, I can admit to that myself at times. Finally, your precision in answering questions and going deeper than actually may be necessary can make you seem like a pedantic know it all to some.

Gee, I hope I wasn't too rough on you. :) In any event, these troubles are more of an issue for others, not you. Keep up what you are doing, It is appreciated.
 
Hi Shane,
You have provided excellent and accurate advise or contributed relevant information to my few queries from time to time - also you have always been upfront to acknowledge your own shortcomings - shame others sometimes do not see it this way.
Some information is better than none at all - and more than often you have provided that long before N3V responds to forum questions.

Turn the other cheek mate and wear the mantle of a politician and you will survive the worst of any forum onslaught - and do not leave us in our hour of need.

BTW I am also suffering the problem of slow and missed typing errors when trying to post on the forum.
 
Trainz is such a complex beast that it is nearly impossible to know everything about any particular topic. Shane does much better than most. There was one person, when a particular question came up - which it did frequently, always responded with a link to a "newcomers start here" for that topic. Perhaps we should have more of those and simply respond as that person did.

I did notice recently a sharp response to one of Shane's comments that I thought was a little unfair but, on reflection, perhaps was unintended in it apparent harshness. It caught my attention because I was about to make a similar response to Shane. So I sat back and reread the question again - several times. The question was very deep and rather technical and I was surprised that it was asked at all. Without going into details it was the type of question that would normally elicit very few responses.

In summary, I guess one has to look at who actually asked the question. There are some who have been around for a long time and will know the obvious answers, but in their case they may be looking for a meaningful discussion on a complex and obscure topic. Those tend to be my favourite discussions.

We can't all be nice all the time and even the best of us have bad days. I believe it's called "being human". :o
 
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