That's what happens when you are young and you enter the adult world. You have to fend for yourself and get a job, etc. and if you start a family then your family becomes your priority with your hobbies a side thing to do on your days off. Older people who are retired have more time on their hands. I'm in a unique situation, my brother and I are mentally disabled and we live together with a man who lived with us since 1994, our mom passed a little over 2 years ago in the hospital and our father on March 8, 1986 from a car hitting him 2 miles from our house at night. We don't drive, and I have been unemployed since Dec. 2000, we get government benefits that our male cousin (mom's sister's son) manages and he lost his dad to strokes March 31, 2023, our mom set up a trust with him so that our future would be secure but now the trust went to a lady that we had investments with. So, I sort of have more free time for Trainz and other video games and things now, but we are keeping busy as well going to church, and going out, and I have a surgery for Crohn's this Friday and will be in the hospital for a few days. More advance robotic surgery with less pain and faster healing. I liked trains since I was little and rode lots of tourist trains, steam trains like WK&S, Strasburg, Blue Mountain & Reading/Reading and Northern, Steamtown, Black River, Bel-Del, Wilmington & Western July 4, 2011, and West Chester (diesel train) last year in September with my male cousin and his son who lives there, he is my mom's only sister's son. I grew up in the arcade and home video game era and had most of the major systems by Atari, Nintendo, Sega, Sony, Microsoft, etc.