You are exactly right, which is why I have been calling for civility and good temperament among members of this community. Thank God that I bypassed my usual research into forums prior to jumping fully into investing in Trainz (and prior to much of the fury that eventually erupted). I would have never been posting now had I read some of the posts that I eventually saw....the official forums will always tend to be the new users first port of call...
I dunno, but I believe that the furore can quite well do significant damage to Trainz...