This thread got me to thinking, who are my "friends"? I don't normally accept friend requests just because somebody asked or is a friend of a friend or whatever, I suppose it might have been different if the internet had existed when I was a kid. 73 names on my friends list -
19 people I know from trainsim forums, only 2 that I've actually met in person.
3 schoolteachers from Duke Ellington Elementary that I worked with as a teachers aide 10 years ago.
4 former students from Duke Ellington who are now grown up.
3 former Navy buddies I haven't seen in 35 years.
5 childhood friends I haven't seen in over 40 years, down to 4 now since one died last week.
All the rest are relatives scattered all over the country.
I think I have even less, and I pick the people I hang out with carefully. I also am careful what I post on there, and keep in mind that the watchful eye of the internet is always there. I can say that it is a great way to share interests with like-minded people, and a way to discuss current events and such with them while knowing that you'r not going to have a thread locked on a forum.
Anyway, my group consists of about:
10 people I know from PianoWorld forums. We've all met in person at piano parties, or have talked on the phone. A couple of them live nearby and we visit with each other quite often.
25 or 30 storm chasers (some are railfans too!) from Silver Lining Tours, including the owners of the company.
4 concert pianists with whom I've conversed with on and offline, and have even gone to their recitals. A couple of these people came in via Pianoworld too.
3 coworkers - two I keep in contact with on and offline, going out to dinner and lunch with, and the other is someone I worked with 25 years ago.
1 childhood friend - we have been best friends since kindergarten.
6 other rail enthusiasts - 2 I know locally, and the others and I became friends as we discussed trains with other mutual friends
A few family members consisting of my two sisters and three of my cousins.
What's interesting is we all discuss the same kinds of things seen here. The train pictures are taken by people from all over the world and the pictures are really worth seeing. The storm guys are both enthusiasts as well as professionals such as Tim Marshall, Mike Umscheid, Mike Hollingshead, and many others. Tim Marshall does the investigations on storm damage and has been on documentaries on Nova and National Geographic. Mike runs
www.severestudios.com. Roger and his wife Caryn Hill are owners in Silver Lining Tours a long with Dave Gold. Roger and Caryn have been on National Geographic, Discovery, Travel Channel, CBS, Nova, and MSNBC. They're currently being featured in a photo magazine, and recently gave a studio-type interview in Hollywood. These are cool people to hang out with and discuss the things we like.
I've noticed that in general the majority of people on facebook, and other social networking sites like it, are very childish. The majority of the people act like they're back in junior high again and have to have their egos "fluffed up" with their "friends" and 'likes". I've "unfriended" a couple of people, and had one unfriend me. No loss, who cares. I'm not going to sit in a corner and get in a hissy fit over it.
John