I think that a lot of us have had issues with Auran/N3V in the past. I know that I have, but as long as you stay within the CoC and keep your discourse civil and non-emotional, then things will work out. We all have different points of view, but I personally find that the folks at N3V are engaged in this forum and seem to generally care about what our concerns are. They may not always agree with our point of view, but they will engage with us as long as we abide by the rules of the forum.
As far as the helpdesk is concerned, I've only had to go that route two or three times, but each time, I received an appropriate answer which was generally helpful. Granted, the response may take awhile sometimes, but some of us have got to learn a little patience in this 'got to have it now' world.
I'll also say that I think that N3V has shown that they value our input in the whole way that they're going about the whole T:ANE issue and hopefully, in about another year, we can have a sim that resparks our creative juices.
Mike