Well I am not one of the adults that think $20 for a gift is highly expensive. You can't get much for $20. Cigarettes here are $70 a carton. I spend at least $300 per kid, I have 3. Then there is the wife, she gets at least $500 worth at Christmas. I am going out shortly to buy her some more. My kids are great. My wife is wonderful, I do not mind spending on her or the kids. It's Christmas! Quit whining and get over it already because it is what it is. No silver spoon here. I work 60+ hours a week, yeah a lot but I love my job. I have the boss that everyone wants. I have been with him for 41 years. I carve granite tombstones and some days I am really glad I do cause that is another one gone. Do you think that all your whining is going to change anything? I highly doubt it as you are pretty much alone with your complaints. Maybe you need another hobby eh?